Posted by PuzzlePieces
You can’t get her to do anything she doesn’t want to do. Thing is I’m sure you like her empathetic nature towards you. This is who she is. We learn eventually when we don’t like how we are being treated. One must decide they’ve had enough and get stronger. Then, they won’t fall for it so much.
You need to let her learn. Your problem is you want things how you want them, and you want to make her fall in line. It’s not how it works. I learned this lesson the hard way seriously. Sometimes people never learn… and sometimes they do. You just can’t make her.
Pfft I can't think of a time she's empathetic towards me... if anything she holds me to a pretty high damn standard. she's way nicer to friends/people she doesn't know. we actually give each other a lot of shit. I actually like it that way, she holds me accountable.... now I'm just confused because her venus is like completely opposite her moon and sun sign.... so I guess I need to be nicer in how I say things.... or less blunt. Me being a sag sun/aries moon and her being an aqua sun/aries moon I though we were a lot the same... but I never looked at that pisces venus until now (i'm a scorp venus so we are compatible).... and my scorp rising/her virgo rising also are a match....