I don't know your placements
@centaur12The Gem sounds bi-polar, I have a Gem that blew hot and cold until I left and now she chases me. The Aries sounds engaging and double fire... but the heart wants what it wants you know?
You gave the Gem your position. I don't know your history with her, but for her to throw out "liar" tells me you've had some misunderstandings or truth dodging back in the day... but toxic push-pulls aint where its at.
Give your Aries a chance if you aren't a field player and looking for a solid relationship. You might have to start blocking/ignoring the Gem, because "whoever cares least in the relationship controls it"...and it sounds like she's doing what she wants.
Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc38 years old maleJoined dxpnet on August 16, 2017.I don't know your placements @centaur12