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You're still with the gem?
I might need to find a cap myself.
You mean "I might need to find a cent". From Centaur
Lol but nvm. I just read about the Aries and 👀. I want somebody who will worship me and long for me without any backup plans.
Me too...not exactly "worshiped", but being made to feel content, listen to, seen, beautiful and desired in his presence.
Also, I done all this for Gem for her kids I poured my heart and soul into her and us why wasn't u good enough yes, I have made mistakes and could of handled things better but I can't understand why
Your mistake is not moving on a long time ago and now you're still continuing to make the same mistake by putting energy and thought into her. She's a Gemini she wants her freedom more than she wants to settle down with you
Why for so long has she told me she wants to have a family unit with me and she talks about marriage and wanting everything else that goes with it.
Then in the next breath tells me I can't give her what she wants because of the family issue with my ex.
They way I look at it is as long as my partner gives there everything to me that is all that matters would other things upset outside of our relationship maybe but would I leave them or treat them like shit if its not there fault no I wouldn't, I would live a life with them as you make your own family unit regardless.
What I'm trying to say is if a person loves you as much as they say they do then regardless of what's happening outside of your relationship they would stay and build with you.
Geminis say one thing one day and they believe it and they say the opposite the next day and they believe that too
Only way to pin a Gem down is to be firm and stable and live your own life enough to where the Gem realises that you're worth giving up her "freedom" for. If you let her run you around then she will and you'll never get commitment from her
I don't think you're capable of it, honestly, you're too weak with her
I am capable now I have realised there are other people out there and the sun doesn't shine out of her ass and that I do have worth!! So I guess the first step to showing that is to leave her the hell alone and tell her ass No if she tries to contact me !!
I would have block her ass, delete her number and focus on something else, if I were you. You may say you will tell her no, right now but once she comes back and talk you out of it, you probably be back kissing her ass again.
Value yourself and JUST BLOCK HER.
Here is how I know I am starting to wise up to it all.
She messaged me on Saturday two weeks ago when we was both kid free at 2 am in the morning and we haven't talked for a week before that saying why do I always think of you when I have had a drink and then asked me to meet her at her house and have food and told her no I am not going to bother and then I get a phone call from her again at 7am laughing saying can you bring me some water in bed please just wondered 😊 smiling on the phone and I said no I can't sorry and then she said we are going out for food today do yoy fancy dinner together and kept putting it on me and I gave in and went with her but to now realise that it was a mistake ad again we aren't speaking and haven't been since Friday last week.
What is your goal? From what I see here you do not want to get over her, you want to tame her.
I wouldn't say tame but more comitte to me she keeps me around like we are in a relationship and then when something goes wrong drops me.
She has been saying for months that we are just friends nothing else but still sleeps with me and cuddles into me etc.
I don't want her to give up her independence I just want her to be my partner properly.
Well, I have been reading your threads, but not sure if I commented. As a fellow air sign: kudos for determination, really.
Thanks I truly gave my all always do when I really love someone but still in the same cycle.
And what do you think, you will be successful in your goal to make Gem a proper partner? How much time do you have in mind to accomplish the task?click to expand