Posted by nanobotz You actually sound extremely delusional. If he felt the same way about you and he felt like you were worth it too - he wouldn’t be with another woman right now.
He was with her when we met. They were already in a long-term rship together. And..he lives in Her house. So.. What he was trying to do, was get me to leave my husband, family,home, life and security FIRST, while he moves out of Her house, into Mine - after Divorce.
Bear in mind that She (the partner), left her husband, family, home, life and security, for Him to move in to her house, after Divorce.
But.. Because I wasn't leaving my partner FIRST, before he left his partner, he got insecure, and waited More until I left First. I mean sh*t! What guarantee did I have that he will even leave her!? None! So i suggested we Rent together so we BOTH leave our partners at the same tome. But he said "I don't want to rent." Yeah because he didn't want to pay out any money to be with me.
I was expected to give up everything for him, to put a roof over his head - just like his partner did - yet he won't pay out a small amount of money on rent Just to start our life together.!?
Basically he was trying to keep his cash for himself - like he did with his partner - while I subsidise Him!
He even used to call me to moan about his partner to me and he would literally say.. "My partner picks fights with me about Money!"
Err well Yeaahh! She put a roof over his head and gave him security and a life while he keeps all his cash for himself. Then he wanted the same deal with me.!