Bruhhhh he is a classic narcissist lmao. I dealt with one as well. I learned a whole lot from it. I think a narc's biggest punishment is that they will have to wake up everyday in their own body and live as themselves for the rest of their lives. They have tons of insecurities and control issues. I'm just happy i got out.
I feel bad for his wife. But also you need to know your value and she clearly doesn't.