Posted by goldenfish Posted by nats
Oh wait after I said good morning and before she sent the flowers pic she said "we're still on for tonight, be at mine at 830, hope you're coming with flowers" then we agreed the time THEN she sent the pic.. sorry forgot to add that in above. Clearly she wants me to play the game, step up, take my woman and be in charge! But I did not like her sending that photo. Makes me feel played and stupid..
I just had similar experience with someone - he also told me that his ex is still on his mind and he want a pause. He popped up again, honestly, if you take advice here and bring low effort rose or whatever crap, you do not stand a chance. And yeah, you were on "a break" for 2 very very different reasons. If you want to win her over - step up. If no -effff off and let the Pieces do his thing.
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Any man who tries to outdo a guy with a bigger bouquet does not show "more effort"- He ends up looking like a chump/simp/sucker instead and she will most likely not value him. She'll just use him.
Low effort when she's being petty- but seeing her in person and giving her good "D" will over ride his low effort gift.
Men should never reward bad behavior with bigger gifts to outdo someone else.
He has some making up to do- but he shouldn't compete with flowers. He shouldn't be bringing them at all since she requested them while showing him the bouquet another man brought for her.
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