Posted by SeajattPosted by Taureancosmic
I'm moving to Spain soon, and in touch with a Bullman from the place I'm moving to
I thought I really liked him, but not sure about him now In touch for 3 months now... He calls every week, we chat for a bit. Occasional message.
I asked what he wanted from me, he said nothing, he thinks I'm interesting, different to other women. We have romantic fantasy chat, about hanging out when I get there. He makes me laugh. He says he's never kept anyone on chatting for this long....But no real effort in getting to know me!
Cut loose?? There's a small part of me wondering if I should wait. A tarot reader friend said bull men only like to invest in something they are 'sure' of, and since I'm not there yet, he is keeping in contact. I know he chats to lots of other women. I know I'm only an option, but can't decide whether to wait and meet him in 2months.
Hmmmm? I'm Bull woman, I understand why he is not putting effort in, but it also irritates me!!!! Hahaha
There's a couple red flags there:
"Says I'm different to other women." This is pretty blatant misogyny, but it's also a feeler for someone experiencing insecurity. I'm guessing you responded positively because he also said:
"Says he's never kept anyone on chatting for this long." This is also feeds into that kind of insecure, pick-me sort of thing.
And he's also talking to other women?
It all seems fairly cut and dry to me, I will leave you to make your own interpretations about his intentions and motivations. All I will say is that I think you should be very slow in giving it up to him, if you were planning to.click to expand