Posted by allrounder Posted by Virgodvn
Here I go again, another Capricorn.. Here is how it went, please give me your opinions 😅😅
I had an amazing date with a guy on Friday.We went to have a drink and eat something. He paid for me even though I offered and he said that next time I can pay when we meet again. Then We stayed talking until 1 am in his car looking at the sea.. . He told me he enjoyed himself a lot and to meet next time and that we have a lot of things in common, he asked me a lot of questions that night.. He took me home....He was shy to make a move, he accompanied me to the door and stayed there looking at me 😅 I Made a move and kissed him goodnight. Told him to let me know when he arrived home. He did and said he loved talking with me and practicing another language and we should do it again on the next date. Then the next day i didn't hear anything and i sent him hello after 16.30pm.. He replied and we had a casual conversation.. But towards 9.30pm he stopped replying.. He didn't really have to, as it was a casual conversation.. I didn't hear anything from him yesterday.. And today.. 😐 I am really confused. Maybe he got overwhelmed? Why this behaviour.. I am still hoping he will text me 🤞
I heard that Capricorns get overwhelmed sometimes and they pull back. Is he gone or do you think he will re emerge? :-)
Sounds like a nice date idk. I'm a Virgo Sun as well. But did you come on too strong at any point? Maybe the kiss even? Cause I know some people out there think any intimacy on a first date is a deal breaker for them. I'm not gonna question why, cause everyone has a reason. But not everything has to be your fault, I'm just throwing out different possible reasons here.
Maybe it could just be that he's a dry texter, but loves talking in person or by call? I know so many people, especially extroverted people prefer this form of communication and don't like spending too much time around their phone or are just busy. I know Sun Scorpios are like this, it seems like they've ghosted you and will take forever to reply back because they're so busy and a lot of them are extroverted lol and frankly, talking to you through a phone just isn't enough social stimulation for them. Because they feel like they're texting a robot. And they just prefer face to face bonding cause it's more intimate and fun for them. You could try calling him, but maybe ask him first, or just go for it if you feel confident enough to!
Did you try texting him again today though? Or just call or text him and you plan the next date instead. Us Virgos are star student planners and organisers usually after all 😆 maybe he's testing you to see if you can also put in effort by initiating stuff with him too, especially if he asked you on a date first.
A male Capricorn in my course who I have been made to work with recently has made us get into contact and closer than before (not romantically, just in general), but I sensed that he was also trying to sus me out to see if I'm a potential match for him. That's what I felt in my intuition anyway. Our in person conversations and interactions are way more fun and comfortable than texting. Our interests aren't very common either, other than our career passions and the fact we both love baking but meh. We get into good convos about our career and career passions though.
When it comes to texting, he's very dry 💀 but in person, he's great. And I've met some people like this before. So just be aware and don't jump to conclusions before you've exhausted all options I think.
Personally, I know someone isn't right for me if they start testing me with mind games because I am not about that crap but anyway you do what feels right in your intuition 
good luck, friend!
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Hello! Thanks for your reply, i really enjoyed reading your opinion and thoughts. 😊
Yes I think that maybe I might have gone too strong kissing him. I don't usually do that but I sensed that he was waiting for that to happen.
I do agree with you about the fact that some people are dry texters. And I also got this vibe from this guy. In person he was really talkative and we didn't have any pauses due to lack of topics to talk about.
I didn't text him again after he stopped replying.. I was thinking I should give him some days to think if he would like to reach out and perhaps see me again.
Maybe I will drop him a text in a couple of days to see how he is.. I really don't know what to think. As a virgo I think silence is an answer because usually when I don't text its because I'm not interested, but I do understand that not everyone reacts the same, some people need space.
I'm confused because during the date and after going home, he told me that he really enjoyed himself and was looking forward to the next time we go out. Then the next day there was like a 180 degree turn 😅 and silence.
Oh well we'll see how it goes. I will give updates should they arise 👍😊
Thanks take care friend :-)
