Posted by MareInfame Posted by Taureancosmic Posted by MareInfame Posted by Taureancosmic Posted by saggurl88 Posted by Taureancosmic Posted by ATGR Posted by Taureancosmic Posted by ATGR Posted by saggurl88
Can't you figure that out once you actually move and meet in person? So much planning ahead for a stranger who tells you what you want to hear.
And you never know if the chemistry will be there when you meet in person.
Absolutely! The chances are that there won't be... I was kind of expecting him to fade away over a few weeks, but he's been pretty regular, which I guess has been a bit like a carrot dangling!! Nice, and annoying at the same time!! Lol
I see it as a positive that he keeps the contact going, definitely still interested in you. I hope it works out for you.
Thanks so much 
I won't cut loose, I'll just see what the universe brings!! Thank you for your kind words, hugs
Think of all the other hot guys to meet in Spain if things don't pan out! A drop in the bucket in comparison.
YESSSSS!!!!! Thank you, do you know, I hadn't even thought of it!!!! But you are SO right!!!
THIS is where you should focus!!! Listen to Saggurl!!
I’d be WAY more excited to meet new people. Put your energy on new and exciting and ON YOU. Not on “hopes” with an online dude.
Meeting IRL is MUCH more fun and fulfilling!!
Yes, you're totally right! I will be doing that also!
It was curiosity, I'm a sucker for trying to figure things out... totally pointless!!!
Oh I get it… I’m quite curious myself 😬… but just don’t let it take too much of your time because as you said… it’s totally pointless.
It’s literally the outlet of LEAST amount of effort. Very convenient for starting things that land no where.
If he’s interested in more than just empty words, don’t fret… he will reach out to you and let you know.
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You're SO right! I literally make no effort! He hasn't called this week, first week in months... though he has sent me emoji's of hearts (doesn't normally do that)... but hey, so what right?!!! Lol!!!
Its so difficult, I annoy myself for occasionally drifting off to fantasy land... But your words resonate with me, he WILL reach out, if and when... I might not even like him in the flesh, we might not connect!! So funny, what we put ourselves through!!
