A woman scorned huh??
You are not the “Victim” you knowingly went into this when neither of you were free, you were both married.
Everything you’ve been through, you deserve as “the other woman”
Confronting his wife is pure vindictiveness on your part. If I can’t have him, I’m going to blow the whole thing up in his face!!
Just walk away, you’ve been defeated, take whatever self respect you have for yourself and build a better person and STAY AWAY FROM MARRIED MEN!!! No matter how cute they are or how much chemistry you feel with them!