Posted by pooface222 Posted by sweethearts
A woman scorned huh??
You are not the “Victim” you knowingly went into this when neither of you were free, you were both married.
Everything you’ve been through, you deserve as “the other woman”
Confronting his wife is pure vindictiveness on your part. If I can’t have him, I’m going to blow the whole thing up in his face!!
Just walk away, you’ve been defeated, take whatever self respect you have for yourself and build a better person and STAY AWAY FROM MARRIED MEN!!! No matter how cute they are or how much chemistry you feel with them!
Errr First of All take away your judgement!
HE SHOULD HAVE STAYED AWAY FROM ME!!
HE is NOT Married! He's in a relationship with a woman who left her husband and kids fir Him!
I WAS Married! AND with a 4 month old baby!
He PUSHED me to LEAVE my husband!" THEN Vanished on me when I wasn't leaving IMMEDIATELY!
THEN..ignored my calls.
THEN after a few weeks CAME BACK INTO MY LIFE, and stated the Whole Cycle AGAIN!
Over and Over.
Each time saying to me "Why are you with your husband? Leave him! I'm in love with you!"
I POST-NATAL too!
Suffering Depression.
And had a Controlling Aries husband!
Who Now looks like an Angel compared to this Pisces because at least my husband actually built a life with me! Long-term!
I've been divorced 2 Years now!
Pisces supported me through it.
He talked to me about us having a Life together - THIS YEAR TOO (2021)!
He literally said to me "Its Well and Truly Over Between Me and My Partner."
So Yeah!
When he talks to me like THAT for 7 YEARS - including this year (2021), And about our life together and our kids seeing each other together (his son is 21 though and left home), I'm going to think he's leaving her.
But all the way along the line its been HIM CHASING A MARRIED WOMAN - ME!
And its the THIRD time he has Done this!
His Wife was Married when she met him!
His Partner was Married when she met him!
I was Married when I met him!
We All Lost our marriages to him!
And now I'm Divorced, He hasn't left!
Rant Over!
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None of what you are saying here is anything more that Woe is me, hunny, you are the one that has put yourself in this position. You left your husband and continue to have an affair with a “married man” he might not have said the vows but he is living with her like a married couple. Not only that but you’ve been believing his BS for 7 years including 2021 and you keep believing it!!! And it’s just BS to get whatever he wants.
Only you can get yourself out of this, stop blaming everyone else including the Dxpers who have commented and judged as you say on reading your continual posts asking for advice… none of which you take on board and try to get yourself out of this situation.
Start looking at yourself I’m the mirror and liking that person!