Posted by newtothis
He is a doctor. I am a law school (the semester just started, so I have a ton on my mind). He's four years older.
We both have never really been in a same-sex relationship (or any relationship). We have both only had sex with one other person. We are connected on so many levels, but I also feel we are running out of things to discuss, so we mess around.
My sign is full of fire, earth, and a little air. His is mainly water with a little earth. I definitely overanalyze. We both have dropped hints of long term (I really think it could work, and I want it to).
Both his and my parents do not know about our personal lives. I feel I am not communicating properly though.
I think ultimately it is how you feel about him. I'm not sure what your relationship dynamic is. When I've been in relationships for whatever reason I am the care giver. I think it could be a struggle of you don't know where you fit. I've had it before were it felt like we were always competing for dominance. That was weird.
I wouldn't worry about the age gap or conversation. It's more important you feel comfortable around him.