Obviously you haven’t mentioned that you have a gf and you’re no longer interested as you haven’t “Blocked her” like you said you were going to.
What’s your end game here?? Do you honestly think that the Gem is going to turn around for you after everything you’ve been through?
Stop fooling yourself, she’s desperate for attention because she’s noticed you’re not beating down her door anymore. You give her the attention she craves and she’ll turn it back on you again for the umpteenth time!!