Posted by Maxian Posted by nanobotz
You know dude…. Sometimes the heart just wants what it wants and it doesn’t make sense to others. It’d be better for you to accept that, and work through those feelings than to bring another woman further (Aries) into this and pretend to take advice from people here. Something in your heart isn’t allowing you to move on from her, so you haven’t moved on. Like not even one small bit, and the sooner you acknowledge that, the better.
Love has its limits.
Still need to keep level-headed and focus on the facts: Gem is playing him for a fool.
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That’s why I said he needs to work through those feelings. He needs to be honest with himself because he’s currently lying to not only himself, but also the Aries woman, by pretending to listen and take advice within his threads. It’s not getting through to him at all, he has no self control. And because of that, the Aries will suffer and he will continue to suffer.
He’s doing whatever he wants despite the good advice given in the threads, because he’s in love with her. He’s very committed to keep going down this path. I mean even right now, he’s preparing to meet with her when he flat out said that they could never be friends months ago. There’s no purpose to this meeting, no good will come of this.