Posted by Centaur12Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12Posted by goldenfishPosted by Centaur12
I'm talking to her on the phone this morning she's messaged me to say she wants to meet up with the kids at the Park.
But I am going to be upfront and straight with her and say I understand what your saying you want is a friendship and not anything else but its not a good idea it will confuse the kids and also, I am seeing someone else and out of respect for them I think its best we leave it.
The plan seems OK. Curious how Gemini will react
I'm sure she won't care 😊 she's already stated her intentions
Mmm 19 missed calls & texts at 3 AM tell me different story.
Yeah she left 19 missed calls and texts but told me it was because she wants to meet up with the kids and to see how I am she wants nothing else but a catch up apparently and has said she will not stand in the way or stop me from meeting someone.
Also, why would she state that she talks about me still with her children and also, mention she's listening to the song we use to listen to together and get upset about it.
Again it's leading me on in one statement she says
"We do talk about you still you know, we always share our memories at the table about you. Why not, im not going to pretend we didnt happen or make the girls feel like they cant talk about you. You are the only man they've ever known to be apart of me. Alissia is non stop asking about you, actually at the table she said "mummy why have you chucked Sammy in the bin" 😆 i listen to im kissing you and it makes me upset" . Does this not indicate she misses me and cares ??
Then the next statement
"this aint a too get back with you message or sympathy. Just putting it out there" (does this not indicate she wants friendship from me or FWB with me and to be at her becking call again?
Again!!! it's all wishy washy behaviour from her I want no part of it !!! This is exactly why I walked away in the beginning because of the up and down wishy washy behaviour.
Tells me she wants a friendship then tells me she's upset listening to our song etc can she not see this is why it's impossible for us to be friends lol.
You never mention here how is Aries. Does she ask any questions? How is she with you? How is it going? Because, you know, she is the present, Gemini is the past.
Aries is curious about why I hesitate on certain things she doesn't speak her mind sometimes I had to grind a little to get her to speak up but I know things bug her and it's my fault because I hold back.
Aries is very loving with me always wants to be close to me goes to hold my hand alot and cuddle me.
She pays for stuff is usually always 50/50 with me is good with my children plays with them she told me she was writing me a letter about how she feels towards me and feels its easier for her to express her feelings that way as she's scared of rejection but then screwed it all up.
She's told me she could see her self marrying me and wants us to live together but would travel back to her town so she could still play her sports and work she said all this while she was drunk on Saturday night.
The one thing that is alittle off putting however is she is very boisterous in her ways and when she's drunk turns into a completely different person spits on the floor swears alot it's pretty disgusting really she's like a different person.
I feel as if I would have to look after her like a child a little bit and that's why me and the Sag split in the beginning she's not very house proud or doesn't seem like she has much care in keeping things nice apart from her self really and It may make me sound like a right snob but I'm not I just want things to be nice and someone to have respect for stuff etc. If that makes sense.
Okay, alcohol thing seems like a red flag.
Without sounding like I am putting her down because that isn't my intentions but she's a little crazy when she's drunk she's loud and dances on tables becomes pretty boisterous so Saturday night we was drinking and her twin sister called her up and was talking down the phone to her to begin with and wanted to talk to me so she was just saying about stuff that happened when they was out and she become slightly funny about it and because she said give me the phone I was like just one second your sis is trying to tell me something and then she rang her sis boyfriend and started talking to him her sis and her sis boyfriend was in the same place drinking together and I was like why did you get so funny and ring your sis bf she said when my sisters drunk she tries to put me down etc I said she wasn't saying a work about you there seems more to it than just that.
It's very off putting for me tbh.
Brilliant when she's not had a drink but changes when she has.click to expand