Posted by TruemaraPosted by GobbiePosted by Easha23000usPosted by Easha23000usPosted by Gobbie
So, your partner is in prison and probably has a limited amount of time on the phone with you.
He warned you that he was about to interject and asked a simple yes/no question, which was important to him (and probably his well-being whilst inside).
Ok..I am learning..
You forgot to do something he asked of you, but you got bitchy because you wanted to vent about something and wanted his undivided attention.
It's very ironic that your partner is a prisoner... but you wanted to imprison him further with your ego.
Btw, don't start threads asking if it's your fault, when obviously all you seek is validation.
HE SHOULD HAVE STARTED THE CONVERSATION WITH WHAT HE WANTED TO ASK ME.. WHY ASK ME HOW WAS MY DAY, AND WHAT I WAS DOING? HE SHOULD HAVE JUST ASKED ME, OR WAIT UNTIL I WAS DONE SPEAKING...THAT WOULD HAVE NULLED THE WHOLE ARGUMENT. AND TO TOP IT OFF, HE SHOULD HAVEB APOLOGIZED..THAT WOULD HAVE SOFTEN THE BLOW.
That's controlling behaviour.
You're being selfish and you know it.
I got to agree op , you want to control how he speaks and even starts a conversation. That’s how it appears to me. Remember he is not you. You got to account on n some leeway on human natureclick to expand