Posted by aquarius09Posted by sweethearts
Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you don’t thrill them in bed or they just don’t see a future with you or they’ve seen someone else that they want to pursue.
The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.
Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The “real truth” = hurt
You don’t have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and you’re not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say “I’m not feeling this anymore.” Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
“I rather not go into it.” It’s not that hard for diplomatic Libras.
Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like you’re way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyer’s remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that you’re more into them than you are. This is why saying “this isn’t working” doesn’t work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didn’t behave this way.click to expand