Posted by aquarius09Posted by sweetheartsPosted by aquarius09Posted by sweetheartsPosted by aquarius09Posted by sweethearts
Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you don’t thrill them in bed or they just don’t see a future with you or they’ve seen someone else that they want to pursue.
The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.
Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The “real truth” = hurt
You don’t have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and you’re not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say “I’m not feeling this anymore.” Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
“I rather not go into it.” It’s not that hard for diplomatic Libras.
Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like you’re way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyer’s remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that you’re more into them than you are. This is why saying “this isn’t working” doesn’t work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didn’t behave this way.
Well I would say why does anyone owe you anything? That might be your perception but it doesn’t make it so and you can’t force anyone to live by your standards.
Sounds like you’ve been butt hurt by a Libra and you still need to get over it!
Sounds like you’ve been butthurt by my bitter truth about who you are and you being guilty of what your sign represents. I have Libra family, friends and acquaintance to know this usual behaviour. I don’t need to date a Libra to know this. Your attitude @ not owing someone basic courtesy speaks volumes about you.
Not butt hurt at all, just not living up to anyone else’s standards because they “think” they have the right to tell others how to live and that everyone “owes” them.
You’re in for a rude awakening!
I can imagine if someone dared to impose their standards on you.
It’s not “my or anyone else’s standards.” That’s what you don’t seem to comprehend and your lack of manners have no bearing on me, lest I dare impose “my standards” on you. I’m talking about a universal expectation of manners, which will be found in every culture or social milieu. You’re just trying to justify shit behaviour as “these are YOUR standards.”
Anyways, I don’t argue with defenders of poor behaviour. I just wish their behaviour on them because nothing teaches them faster than getting their own medicine. May you get ghosted after you’ve been led on for months since nobody owes you manners or anything for that matter 😆🥂click to expand