Posted by borednbeautiful
@allrounder
I didn’t want to derail my other thread, so we can talk here a bit.
Here is my opinion:
-Pisces guy doesn’t respect you. He doesn’t see you as a person/woman worthy of attention and effort. You leave his place feeling used, he doesn’t even have manners to offer a drink or similar. I think you should cut him loose. Plus, he is healing from his ex and is not emotionally available.
-Taurus guy wants a threesome and that’s also a red flag. Suggesting this to a girl you just met means he just sees you as a sex object. You will feel unworthy, dirty and used afterwards. I mean, unless this is your sexual fantasy too and you can get into that with 0 emotions. But if you are gonna think about it later and have some doubts, don’t do it.
-Scorpio guy seems like a fair game. We don’t know enough about him yet, but at least he seems to treat you with respect. He offered actual dates/activities and cared enough to offer a drink/cook for you. He also said he likes your mind and didn’t mind your emotional tantrum. These are good signs. Unless, he is only doing this to get laid (and I can’t imagine him being a desperate simp, so hopefully not) you should also give him a fair chance.
And my last question is, why are you doing all this? Have you been hurt in the past? Just experimenting? Boredom?
I have Leo mars too and don’t pay attention to bad rap it gets. It’s a very hot mars to have!
Yeah honestly after everything with the Pisces guy, I read a quote that said "She realised her value when it was apparent that he didn't value her". Resonated so hard. I feel like it's a Leo and Libra thing that we just want to feel loved, valued and like an important part of someone's world. That's what I'm looking for.
The Scorpio guy literally paid for my drink without telling me lol and yes, him complimenting my mind is probably one of the best compliments I've ever received. But yeah, I'm definitely still going to keep valuing myself and see what his intentions are with me first. My only issue with him right now is he has so many main Scorp placements and I know Scorpio placements can make one quite secretive or not revealing the full picture or a tendency to lie frequently. I really don't like that kind of behaviour. Also, he seems to like talking about himself quite a bit more than asking me questions, which triggers my Leo Mars 😂 but I think that's a red flag anyway?
Why I'm doing this? I'm just waiting for the right person to be with for life. And since 2021, I've just been focusing on working on myself. I left 2021 only for self love, didn't even look for love with someone else. Now I feel ready for a serious long term relationship. And because I haven't been looking and have been taking new opportunities, meeting new people at the moment... You can imagine what the Universe does. Once you really don't look for love, it looks for you.
