Posted by WhorpioPosted by rotiYou and these married men who seek you out are not playing by the same rules as their wives. That’s the issue. You’re not going to claim responsibility because you’re doing what you want, it’s on these married men to act right. But sometimes just because you can do something, doesn’t mean you should.
You could easily have a no married men policy but you stated you’ve benefitted from them in the past or not fuck men who aren’t in open relationships at all.
Married men are going to cheat (and typically will financially pay to cheat) whether I’m in the equation or not.
I can either take advantage of that and make some money while also having fun, or I can turn my nose up and pretend like I’m better than everyone because I have a moral high horse.
I’d rather be in the first category of acting true to my instinct and accepting that I’m morally no better than anyone else, than losing out on money & fun and pretending like that makes me better than anyone else.
I just think the moral aspect everyone is tacking on to this is ridiculous when morals are a very personal preference.
Also I’m not getting notifications when you quote me either. I wonder why 🤔click to expand
Posted by WhorpioPosted by rotiYou and these married men who seek you out are not playing by the same rules as their wives. That’s the issue. You’re not going to claim responsibility because you’re doing what you want, it’s on these married men to act right. But sometimes just because you can do something, doesn’t mean you should.
You could easily have a no married men policy but you stated you’ve benefitted from them in the past or not fuck men who aren’t in open relationships at all.
Married men are going to cheat (and typically will financially pay to cheat) whether I’m in the equation or not.
I can either take advantage of that and make some money while also having fun, or I can turn my nose up and pretend like I’m better than everyone because I have a moral high horse.
I’d rather be in the first category of acting true to my instinct and accepting that I’m morally no better than anyone else, than losing out on money & fun and pretending like that makes me better than anyone else.
I just think the moral aspect everyone is tacking on to this is ridiculous when morals are a very personal preference.
Also I’m not getting notifications when you quote me either. I wonder why ?click to expand
Posted by WhorpioPosted by rotiYou and these married men who seek you out are not playing by the same rules as their wives. That’s the issue. You’re not going to claim responsibility because you’re doing what you want, it’s on these married men to act right. But sometimes just because you can do something, doesn’t mean you should.
You could easily have a no married men policy but you stated you’ve benefitted from them in the past or not fuck men who aren’t in open relationships at all.
Married men are going to cheat (and typically will financially pay to cheat) whether I’m in the equation or not.
I can either take advantage of that and make some money while also having fun, or I can turn my nose up and pretend like I’m better than everyone because I have a moral high horse.
I’d rather be in the first category of acting true to my instinct and accepting that I’m morally no better than anyone else, than losing out on money & fun and pretending like that makes me better than anyone else.
I just think the moral aspect everyone is tacking on to this is ridiculous when morals are a very personal preference.
Also I’m not getting notifications when you quote me either. I wonder why ?click to expand
Posted by WhorpioPosted by rotiYou and these married men who seek you out are not playing by the same rules as their wives. That’s the issue. You’re not going to claim responsibility because you’re doing what you want, it’s on these married men to act right. But sometimes just because you can do something, doesn’t mean you should.
You could easily have a no married men policy but you stated you’ve benefitted from them in the past or not fuck men who aren’t in open relationships at all.
Married men are going to cheat (and typically will financially pay to cheat) whether I’m in the equation or not.
I can either take advantage of that and make some money while also having fun, or I can turn my nose up and pretend like I’m better than everyone because I have a moral high horse.
I’d rather be in the first category of acting true to my instinct and accepting that I’m morally no better than anyone else, than losing out on money & fun and pretending like that makes me better than anyone else.
I just think the moral aspect everyone is tacking on to this is ridiculous when morals are a very personal preference.
Also I’m not getting notifications when you quote me either. I wonder why ?click to expand