Yeah GB I'd hate to be a guy, i see them get rejected all the time when they approach someone. I always try to be polite even when I'm not interested because I feel it's taken them alot of guts to come up and ask or try and make conversation. My gf's slam me for being too nice because they say I'm leading them on.....so even a women can't win!
Damned if you do and Damned if you dont!