Go back to the basics and make him chase you again, whatever made him chase after you in the beginning throw it back out there. Get him working for what he wants.
And stop with the arguements, I know you are frustrated with him because you aren't getting what you need but I bet he doesn't even know why or what these arguements are over. They are probably stupid little things which will eventually turn him off you. Some people think that the make up sex is the best thing, NOT Librans they would rather not have to go through arguing...it upsets our scales! And if it's constant then we will look for a way to escape!!!