i'm confused. u threw in the love-him-like-a-brother there so i don't see how anything can go beyond that... unless that's ur kink. i love my best friend like a brother (i'm a female) and there's no way in hell anything is gonna happen because he truly is like my sibling.
i guess it's because thats the love we had when we were growing up...It's been 10 years now since I have seen him or had any contact and the person that I'm talking to over the net is a totally different person. That's the confusing part...I still feel the person I grew up with... but then there's this man that is making all the right moves and saying all the right things. He is a good looking man too and when we were younger we were curious as youngens can be, we did kiss once...But in my mind at the moment it doesn't go sexual when I think of meeting him again
Why Sweets? if you already care for him and love him as a friend,what is holding you back really? there is doubt in your mind and I just wonder why.we need to talk about this,it's killing me
Honestly Bella...I'm scared... 3 years ago my first love died suddenly and left me to deal with never finding someone to share my life with again. And anyone I have dated has ended quickly & with pain.
I moved countries and I am happy and I'm enjoying my life because I've dealt with it all. I've made a new life with loads of friends and put everything behind me, life is perfect at the moment....and then this...
My mama always says "a bird in hand is worth two in the bush"...
I think To fall in love with him would change everything, all of a sudden Where he is what he is doing and who he is with will matter. Love has demands and wants answers...friends dont