"I'll tell you when I find out all about me, myself, and I"
female from Miami, Florida, USofA
I think differently - I see it as money that should be spent/kept in our household. Period. His head would roll if we had kids and it came to light that he was financially supporting a mistress. He'd be chopped to pieces if he complained about money to me. ( Disagreements about money is the culprit in many marriages and these same husbands dole out money to mistresses)
Now, I'm not so sure if I'd actually sue the other woman but he'd be in hot water.