I have been dating a virguy for three months now, and he told me that he is in love with me. I am in love with him also. He does the disappearing thing sometimes, meaning he will avoid my calls for a day then he will call the next day as if nothing ever happened. He will say he was busy or needed time to think. Well i recently found out I am pregnant. He says that he dosent want anymore kids as he already has a five year old. I feel so torn because how can he say he loves me but dosen't want this baby. I have tried to get him to see this from my point of view but he is so stubborn. Then two days ago he says he talked to his mother and she made him understand where I am coming from. He said that he now is giong to support me and that he still loves me. He also said that no one is at fault and that we both knew what we were doing. He said all of this on my voicemail two days ago and i havent heard from him since. I have called him three times. Any advice?