april - july: good company, good rapport, long talks.
august - november: was off the office for 2 weeks. kept constant communication despite distance, which is strange. in like with virguy. i said as much, do as much. was asked to watch movies, and hanged out. was both teased by colleagues. his reaction to the teasings was to close off and be
december: teasings escalated to the point that it affected friendship. he did hold hands with me while drunk. ended up with having the whole thing blown up to much teasing from fellow colleagues, thereafter and with him professing that he could not remember anything after when drunk. talked nonstop for a week when was asked to go to a concert on march.
january: after the drunk hand holding. things went downhill. virguy became closed off. i think it was the amount of teasing and the publicity of us being teased. :\ asked virguy what's up? confronted that something's wrong between us and can we please talk this out? his reply: i am okay with this. (WTF?) generic avoidance.
february: we're like strangers at this point. i was worried about the concert at this state, wondering if it'd push through or not. attempted to give back his ticket.
march: a week before the concert virguy re-adds me to his im. makes vague plans on going, stressed on being early. went to the concert. i was early, he was late. the vibes i was getting was that he'd prefer to sleep at home. huh. told him off after the third time that if he really was that knackered, he could go home and sleep, no big deal if he wants to bail. (he ran 15k that morning, )
late march: friends talked. heard that i might be reading too much in his actions. (hand holding, belly pinching -- so this is not like huh? ) ) was asked if i wanted more from him: i said, if we cannot even sustain simple friendship, what's there to ask more of?
april: bounced back to being normal friends, despite the whole awkward phase of being strangers. it's like the awkward phase did not happen. virguy said that when one is drunk, his true colors show. huh. so does he remember things while drunk or not? :\