Posted by curious visitor
he sounds like the type who's actions you shouldn't read too much into. not because it isn't true. it probably is. but he clearly isn't comfortable admitting it. some people care first about what the brain says, what they say they feel, rather than their actual feelings. they will make sure that whatever happens falls in line with their words, rather than their feelings, no matter how obvious their feelings might be.
in other words, he sounds very immature. (i don't know how old he is. age and maturity do not always correlate)