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Seavixen your purdy....
I have to slightly agree with Cappysweetie, I although I do believe there are signs she made a great point in also looking at what's going on in a man's life outside of the relationship but Seavixen pinned it for me...Men that behave this way are immature cowards but I do believe there are signs.
A few examples of signs is him distancing himself prior to disappearing, another sign is his sudden lack of interest in making you happy and/or doing things together or him going along with you but he's seems resentful and reluctant, another sign is his phone being off or on vibrate versus before he was wide open with his conversations with others, another hint is his inability to be consistent with communication via phone/text/email etc takes him days to get back or hours versus before when he was getting back within the hour, another sign is him talking about another woman such as his ex-girlfriends or a new friend that suddenly pops up into conversations, another sign is opting to be with friends over you whereas before he was stuck to you like glue, there are obvious signs such as him flirting with other women in front of you which includes online, him introducing you as a friend not as a girlfriend to others, there are subtle signs and not so subtle signs, I find through my experience with helping women cope with break ups etc is she never pays attention to any of the signs, when she does see them she denies those are real signs, if someone tries to point out signs she resents it (denial is strong when in love even if that person is showing signs of falling out of love with her she still clings to the man.
most men are not direct with women, if a woman doesn't know how to ration out his behavior she's going to struggle when he leaves, inevitably after all the subtle I don't want this with you anymore signs the man gets frustrated by the woman's clueless behavior and he opts to move on quietly but mind you he gave 10 or more subtle signs before leaving, he's doing everything in his power through his behavior that says I don't want this with you anymore but many women just don't get it unless he says it verbally which can cause and create a huge amount of pain for the woman when he disappears.
I have known men that don't give any clues or signs at all and yes that sucks, horrible to do to another person...It's the ugly part of relationships