You know someone completely disappearing on me has only happened for like a day. And usually I am the one who is not tolerable of that after awhile and I let them go. I do ignore guys, but thats the intial stages of. Can I get ur number, and they just persist ans persist ans persist, I relent and give them. But I never ansawer.
But after my marriage when I dated someone for like 3 months there is evidence of the end, but I think most of it comes down to me.
I can imagine how that sucks to be ignored, boom, just like that. Some guys are just total retards, and I know it sucks but you are better off in the long run.
I think in ur case Candeh, you should allow men to chase you. You are young and beautiful. If a guy is really into you, he does stuff for you, and chase you. Don't be so giving of yourself. I learned the hard way. Stop chasing these dumb guys. Youre too good for that, AND you are completely worth it.