Bottom line after the meeting is that she is non-conforment and compliant in anything she doesnt want to do at school. I have spoken up about the uniform but have come to the realization that it is more than that and somehow I have to wake her up to the harm that she is causing herself for the future....**takes a deep breathe ready to go into the ring again**
I have pulled her out of school for the next week with the backing of both the vice principle and head teacher. Now i need to get her back home...she spent the night with a friend. And the nother rang and told the principle this morning.
@ Pesca, i understand all you are saying. Now though the shoe is ont he other foot and I am the parent having to deal with it or find a way to get through to her. She doesnt get much bought for her these days but i guess I have to be more persistant in her buying for herself from now on. No more $ 20 here and there because she wants to go to the movies or hang out at late night shopping with her friends. Instead I will try and see she gets a part time job which is what I am working on with one of the career ladies at the school.