but why???? no one has said why the men have to pay? I really dont get it. Is this the 11th commandment or something? lol If the guy HAS to do it or is expected to do it, then it isnt chivalry really is it. It's just the guy doing what he HAS to do to get the girl.
If the man HAS to pay, does the woman also HAVE to wash up and make dinner? It's strange how the old traditions that seem to benefit women are the ones that stick, while the others are the ones they moan about.