Impressme, that's funny that you say you don't have time to flirt, you feel like you are on a mission--my bf says that too! He says his time is valuable and he wouldn't waste it with trifles.
Starlover, yes, i do find Hugh Hefner unattractive, but he is quite Aries like, in that rather than put up a front and carry on his indiscretions discreetly, he does so out in the open. That's one of the things I like about Aries, their straightforward approach to life. Thank goodness the Hugh hefner path holds no appeal for my bf!