My relationship with my Gemini guy is exactly the same as your @saggirlius. He says the same thing about labels. Our relationship has been a 10 month stretch??_no labels. Once he said I was thinking we should be together but I told him to be sure so I wouldn??t be ignored the next day and he??d say never mind. That was four months ago. Of course knowing more about him and Gemini men now I shouldn??t have even asked him to make sure because that sent him into a long thought journey which he hasn??t come back from. Gemini already think about all sides of an issue I should have just said sure let??s do it. Anyway we??ve talked about marriage and where we want to live which I find odd since we still aren??t officially girlfriend and boyfriend. He always comes back to me at night, tells me his feelings, and family problems. We are really close. I know he loves me so I??ll wait and be patient like he says. I think you should wait for him. The good thing about Gemini being known for their indecisiveness and wandering eye is that when they choose you they really choose you. They have already thought about you over and over and what you mean to them. They know they have many options and can sleep around or be with another person but they chose to try to be with you. They are so deeply caring and loving. Absolutely worth it.