Posted by Metoo
I agree with not texting him again. He could be testing you to see how your gonna respond.
Also with the holidays, even after you broke up with someone alot of emotions come back up, memories of past holidays and times spent. Some sadness or confusing feelings can come up.
He could have felt like things were moving really fast and got scared and didnt trust it would last if he had been hurt that way before.
The point to remember is, there was a sincere friendly connection, and some flirting, but no serious bond or attachment beyond some things in common and I think it is great, though unfortunate, that is happened this early with you guys and he pulled away.
You didnt invest too much time, you didnt get even more attached and you did nothing wrong.
So something is going on with him that has nothing to do with you.
You put your best self forward, acted genuinely and for whatever reason he came back with a BIG red flag and I am glad he did as he helped you not to waste any time! Sorry girl...if he comes back, be careful.