Hello, all. I haven't posted on the DXPNet boards in two and a half years now, but I am back because I have a small issue that I want some insight on.
First, for a little background information, I am a twenty-two-year-old March-born Aries male who has been in a wonderful relationship for 4.5 years with a lovely January-born Aquarius female.
About two months ago, a June-born Gemini female obtained a position at my office and we immediately hit it off just by talking, shooting the butter, etc. She is six years older than me; however, I have noticed that she is fairly immature, so the age difference doesn't seem to be a problem. She has been naturally flirty with me from the get-go, and I feel that, without even realizing it, I've been flirty right back to her. She has also taken to calling me cute little "pet names" and she bugs me all day at work with random emails, etc. about anything and everything under the sun. Said conversations have included stories about her troubled life at home (she still lives with her parents) to issues she has with a couple of boys who keep telling her that they are going to take her out, only to stand her up.
Keep in mind, she knows that I am in a long-term relationship with the aforementioned Aquarius female. After about five or six weeks, she asked me to go to lunch with her and I made up an excuse as to why I couldn't go. She seemed really bummed about that. The following week, I went to lunch with two other female co-workers (who are both married and are both old enough to be my mother). Said Gemini female kind of made a big deal about why I wouldn't go to lunch with her, but that I would go to lunch with the other two.