Thanks for the wonderful insight, gemini64. I feel that there is a lot of truth to what you have said. The biggest issue I'm having is that not only can I not tell how she feels, I can't even tell how I feel myself. As an Aries, I am the most loyal person in the whole world and I love my Aqua female. But I think I am loving the attention Ms. Gem is giving to me, and I think I am loving it so much that I'm smitten with her. The biggest problem I have is that she is a very pretty girl and is exactly my type, as in, if I was single, I would probably be all over her. That might show you the biggest dilemma of all of this. In any event, I definitely appreciate your insight as it seems to have sparked a wonderful conversation in this thread.