Hi i am an aries and in love with a cancer man(ex)we had a close relationship for 7 months and he was totally in love with me(hope he still does). He wanted me to meet his parents by this month and was planning to get married. He is 5 years older than me,i thought he was taking it too fast which i was honest about it. I am girl with bad experience in past relationship (very very bad)so this time i was careful with this man because the pain i went through in each relation was exhausting.. however i found him the best in all and everything...very sweet and caring like no other man. for the first time i felt like being in a real relationship.Was ready to compromise that come to my way,however we had this argument one night,he was soooo!angry like never before. I don't know the reason still which kills me,feeling guilty day and night. The reason i somehow assume that was regarding his family which i would never do!!(swear to god!!!)and yes even he knows that. Also he has the habit of using some logic and all which i still don't get. He interrupts me whenever i speak and never let me explain or talk. I knew he was going through some problems,yes also i wont deny it i made many mistakes too but i didn't know how to handle it, his emotions in proper way.He even blamed me for his failure ( to which i don't agree > ) He said so many harsh things to me which still rings in my ear and makes me unhappy...he said about my personality and ambition in a negative way which totally made me feel like a selfish person who is worthless and lives in alice in wonderland.It has dampen my confidence and spirit,what i see now in front of me is blank!! The truth is i really felt we were something together,i am trying to move on,its been like a month we are not in contact.This is our first bad fight, trust me i read all the posts in yahoo and dxp to some how comfort myself and to reach the answers. i also got some great advises from few people that i posted in somebody's thread. I am sorry i am new here and just wanted to share it.All i wanted from him was to spend some time outside his office not inside .I also like other couples, wanted to hang out,late night dinner and movie which we did only at the begining.i wanted some excitement. He thought i was being selfish and needy. If we ever talk in future i just wanted to say to him every couple fight! we are not the only one here. p.s he doesn't even know what all i have compromised for him all this while.