Posted by sweethearts
One of the first areas that break down in a marriage is sex and communication. You can still live someone and want to be with them but miss these two important things..not right to look elsewhere but it happens and its not easy to get it back when it's gone..the sex and real talk.
Thought I'd clarify this again now that I'm not on my phone...
For those that have been in LONG relationships, they would understand this more but The SEX, is one of the first things that go. You still love the person and live your lives together and share certain things still but sex is mundane and some just stop and not bother. Some people even op for separate beds. Life goes on, you maintain your family lives with children etc as routine but the sparks are all but a fizzle of what was...Communication is how was your day and a peck on the cheek...
Then one day out of the blue, you run into someone and your heart skips a beat...that excitement that you haven't felt in 10-15 years all comes rushing back all at once and damn it feels good! It doesn't stop there because that person is unrelenting. Maybe you gave out your number or they looked you up on FB...however it happens...it happens all the time and some peoples morals are easily compromised...
We can all say No No No...but there will be a lot that are compromised in certain circumstances. I know that for a fact. Many a time my friends and I have spoken about friends of friends and the cheating and there's always that one...No way, never thought that would happen to them, they seemed so perfect!! Funnily enough it was all around the late 30's, children growing up, wife feeling no longer useful, man not feeling the love anymore because she was too focused on everything but him...
Seen it lots, hear about it around here all the time
