Posted by pinklibra
I would've posted this on a general board, but my Libra peeps are fam so here it goes.
Basically, I'm still in love with the Aries I used to post about 2 yrs ago. I've dated others, and I even like a Cancer (don't ask me why, because he's a jerk face most of the time). Anyway, I want to be over this Aries once and for all. I know it's a process and all that jazz, and believe me it's an even longer process for me since our families are so close. We keep running into one another.
I feel tension between us. I'm uncomfortable and I'm almost certain he is too, and I just hate it. I really do. My cousins have urged me to talk to him, but my feelings are still pretty raw and the wound from him dropping me for someone else is still pretty fresh I don't want to chance talking to him and he says the wrong thing and I wig out. Aries are blunt, and when i'm hurt so am I, so i'm not sure that will be a good match for talking.
I don't know what to do. Things are going really good in my life right now, and i'm unfazed by this situation until I see him. Deep down, I'm still in love and cant help feeling like I wasn't good enough . I was just wondering what you girls doe to move forward? Like what do you tell yourself? I'm usually good at these type of things but i'm really in a hurry to let it go. I feel like a complete idiot loving someone that doesn't love me back, ESPECIALLY when there is some new chick on the block. Even though they aren't official, and rumor has it he's still not trying to settle with anyone,I cant fathom another girl. Period. need to let it go and FAST! Thanks for all the help Remember I've helped some of you, so if you get snappy or rude, I will light right back into you! Thankies.