Cont. up or when I could drop them off. He said he would pick them up, but then never showed so the day before I left I drove to his work when I knew the kitchen was closed and called to tell him I was here to drop off his stuff. He came out to get his things and I told him I forgave him and I hoped he wouldn't do to her what he did to me. He was speechless. That was the last I spoke to him. I'm now away for school and will be for another ten months at least. When I get back home I want to try getting back with him. What we had together was special and I have forgiven him even though its quite obvious he cheated. No one ever made me feel as special as he did and he told me I was the best thing that ever happened to him, I don't understand how he could just throw it all away unless my going away to school really scared him on top of this slut from his work most likely incessantly hitting on him (our mutual friend who is make said he wasn't even interested in looking at other girls while we were together and he doesn't understand why he would leave me either, they have been friends for over 20 years). I don't plan on doing anything before I return home. What is your advice for winning him back? Do you think he will come back on his own?