There is some truth to what everyone is saying here...even crazypants
I never asked to spend the whole day with him, which is interesting because he was having the same assumption. I have plans for the afternoon, and I'm not the type to stay in bed all days anyways...so I'm pretty confused as to why he would assume that. I'm usually telling him I have to go and have plans...
Soultalk: Yes. But after speaking with him yesterday, I see there are much deeper issues. Maybe I'm trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. He's young, and doesn't seem to know what he wants, and I'm just not in that stage anymore. So it almost cancels out this issue. I think he gave me the impression he was super reliable, and wanted something very serious, when in fact, he loves me, but just isn't sure what he wants out of life, thus he isn't sure what he wants future wise, and for me, that's a big problem. Huge. I think I need to look beyond my feelings very realistically at who I am dating, and see if we want the same things. After last nights conversation, despite his efforts to convince me, I don't believe that we do.
TLS: Overboard and Toxic- maybe? I was trying to step outside myself and see- Am I overreacting? And in this case, it may seem yes, but in the big picture I think it's reflective of concerns that perhaps we are not compatible, because he's made me feel this way before, and the feeling IS TOXIC.