Posted by Aquarius75
I'm curious what parts of his behavior contribute to his jerkiness.
He has said on numerous occasions "I've been thru hell and back", "all the ish I've been thru...." Blah blah blah.
I told him he has no idea what I've been thru and that everyone has baggage/things that have hurt them. I've tried to deal with him from a mature standpoint because I am mature. Not going to stoop to his level. I have to continue to be me.
I do believe when he's been a complete jerk that was a personality flaw but the hesitation, running away and hot/cold, and now the baby steps back, just curious from a male taureans perspective where does this come from. It seems like a pattern from everything I've read abt the sign.