I've browsed this site for quite sometime now and this is my first post. I desperately need some advice/help on a situation. My cancer boyfriend of almost a year just called and told me he thinks we should break up. The last two days we haven't really spoken due to a small arguement we had. He was very calm and matter of fact on the phone and he said he thinks we should break up. This came as a painful and unexpected surprise to me. I started crying and telling please don't. He did say he still loves me but there are certain issues in the relationship and he had been thinking about this for a few days now. I love him so much and don't want to lose him. Just a few days ago we were happy and talking about our future. We love each other both very much but I have also unintentionally hurt his feelings. We almost broke up a few months ago over some issues but we worked them out. I'm really hoping this can be worked out but I honestly have no idea what to say or do. I love this man so much and he loves me but what can I do about how I've hurt him? Thank you to anyone who responds to my question. I can provide more details if needed..