Posted by StarMooney
^yes he will, men are logical and calculating. You'll almost never witness a man jump blindly into love like that, he will see where the woman is at first. Maybe in a perfect world, but in the real world men look for green lights before they actually act on their love. Just like they look for red lights or red flags before deciding to bounce out of a relationship with a woman. They are just way less expressive than women are in this process.
But OP, if it's not the reassurance factor then it's probably one of the other options I mentioned. If he's naturally indecisive then I think it'll be good to let him see what life looks like without you for awhile so he can come to a decision. Or if you're ok with it, just keep going with the flow and see what happens. I think they guy really likes you. Maybe even loves you. Indecision is not always a sign of someone not being interested or whatever the case. I think you're pushing him to positive change. But how long has this been going on?