Posted by roxylexy10
so i've been a huge believer in astrology for quite some time.. never reached out though about it so here i go..
i've been on and off in a very rocky but very passionate relationship with a cancer male. ( i am a taurus female) for about 5 years.
it started off really wonderful. he was the sweetest ever. then the break up's began. ( we started dating very young) we're both 25 now. he would tell me he didn't know what he wanted/confused/needed to find himself.
this has been going on for the whole last 4 years of our "relationship" even though we haven't been officially together, he comes back, disappears, comes back, disappears, like clockwork!
I dont understand. the love we have for each other is very deep and real; however, we did argue A LOT. and we both know that we are not so good for one another..but yet we love each other and it's so hard to let go.
anyway- too much has transpired to begin to talk about it all.. but basically, is this normal cancer male behaviour? im so fed up and confused. I just saw him again after a while the other night (yes we had sex) but it was more than just sex.. he's extremely* affectionate, cuddly, says he loves me thousands of times and smothers me with love when we're together. then.. he's gone.
I understand it's typical male behaviour to pull away after he's gotten what he wanted.. but at this point, after this many years(and we've both seen other people in between) I don't know anymore if it's only that. his emotions run deep.. and he has many deep seeded issues that he has admitted to.also he is a bit immature for his age.. he is having trouble finding himself.. but i love him so much and I know he cares for me.
why does he disappear? what should i do? i'm beginning to think I need to just cut him out of my life for good.. but neither of us have ever been able to do that