Posted by busyeyes88
You only become part of the harem if you have sex with him before establishing a solid friendship / relationship and not knowing what your status is. This taurus friend did not like the fact that I did not have sex with him whilst establishing a friendships and basically told me in a certain way that unless I slept with him he would not hang out with me (he said: every time is see you I see sex and I dont want to suffer like that). So being a platonic friend has proved difficult as he gets on his high horse probably due to the fact that I did not have sex with him. So a week ago today he pissed me off by treating my texts message with suspicion just because his ex girlfriend did that (he also has a VIG) and i basically said
"i'm not your ex or your girlfriend. I don't give a butter about what you do as long as you are happy and are ok. You will mean something to me so I will never cut off contact with you first. But if you find you don't want me to be on contact with you just say. Because when you treat my words with suspicion and all I did was show genuine concerns it just upsets Me and makes me.wonder why I bothered in the first place.. It's not fair. Bye"
He tried to redeem himself by sending me pics of live band playing at his daughters birthday. I read it and did not respond and have not text him since. When I am done I am done.