Posted by MontgomeryPosted by safire
I think he will come back. Give him the space he needs. In my experience the introverted leos enjoy having a lot of freedom and space. This does not mean they won't be loyal to their partner. In my opinion when you love someone, you need to trust them completely and let go of the doubting mind trying to dominate your being. Trusting their words and resolve and letting them be who they are without trying to change them is ultimately respecting them. A leo knows when they are being shown the respect they deserve. Respecting and accepting a person fully is the ultimate form of unconditional love. If you respect him and value him, I believe it would be only fair of you to respect his request for some time apart. He will have a chance to miss you, too, when you are not completely available to him at all times.
You seem to be an important friend of his. Else he would not bother with you so much. Introverted leos are usually rather picky about who they choose as their friends and confidantes. If there is a strong bond of friendship, a leo won't abandon it just like that. If they did, then they were definitely not worth your time and love and it is in your best interest to let them go.
Monty pointed out something important on another thread - I agree that if a leo has some libra in their chart, they might be quite willing to turn a friendship into something more.
Oh gahd, that's humbling... lol
I've seen that, yes... it was two Leebs, and it happened over the course of
4-5 years-- but she absolutely had a life of her own.
He was lucky to snag her, and he finally realized it.
I also think you're right about this: If they did [abandon you], then they were definitely
not worth your time and love and it is in your best interest to let them go.
But even if he is a very good friend, you still need to not let him plow over you, and keep
you in his back pocket as a 'friend' unless he wants something more.
It's not right, and it isn't fair to you, flower_girl.
Keep it on YOUR terms-- that is, he would be lucky to have you and not the other way around.
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