it is there but I am scared I am bored now. and I am wondering if he is mirroring me or I am mirroring him but communication sucks nowadays. just last night we fought coz he said I love you and I said ok kwl. I answer like that coz he does it 2 me and I take it as a joke but when I do it to him he blows up. he has an ego that I don't know how to soothe and my love language is words of affirmation and though I told him this he doesn't get it. so now I have retreated back to my lil corner. worse part is we getting married in Dec. feel like I am in a roller coaster kind of relationship. we just go where the wind blows or the sun shines.