Like, I need to see him face to face and let him know that I just don't ever see myself being with him on a serious basis, because of his player ways. The way he is/was was cool with me, because we were casual, but I would have never tolerated that treatment in a serious relationship. He's just not getting it or refuses to accept it. In response to his declarations, I was just reminding him that it was always supposed to be casual, etc. That hasn't deterred him, but he's still not acting like his declarations are real. I don't know how to describe it. Basically, I think that I could continue to not see him and the thought (in his mind) that he's reeled me back in could probably be enough for him. lol It's just that eventually, I KNOW he's going to demand to see me and I'm going to say no.