Posted by 9waterlion9
Every time these pop up I can't help but cringe a little...
You know what makes someone good in bed? Two things: Experience...but even more important: CHEMISTRY *~*~*~*~*~*~
Experience because with experience you become aware of what you like(therefore more confident and able to communicate) and also aware of the other person(therefore paying attention to body language or verbal language and finding a nice even playing field).
If you had *OMG HORRIBLE SEX* that's probably on you for not communicating what you wanted or failing to take the lead and turning things in that direction. If someone is really doing something THAT bad, why not tell them so they can learn to be better?
And assuming communication was established and things still don't feel right....you probably just don't have sexual chemistry, and that's okay. People like all kinds of different stuff that may or may not allign with your completely SUBJECTIVE view of what's good.
But seriously, it takes two to have really good sex, and two to have really bad sex.
K rant over, I'm cranky and full of vegan thanksgiving and wine